This is an article with a vast amount of information regarding the whole farce that is know today as what is “normal” associated in context of sex. There is a large amount of evidence within it which leads one to believe this is a subject that must be spoken about but is not. Its pretty eye opening and may be a lot to take in…this is definitely something that should be pondered upon.
“Above all, don’t lie to yourself. The man who lies to himself and listens to his own lie comes to a point that he cannot distinguish the truth within him, or around him, and so loses all respect for himself and for others. And having no respect he ceases to love.”
― Fyodor Dostoyevsky, The Brothers Karamazov